Your Path Through The Her Serenity Method™

Each coaching container is designed to support a different stage of transformation through the Her Serenity Method™

from emotional stabilisation and pattern awareness through to deeper identity rebuilding and self-leadership.

Structured support. Trauma-informed lens. Pattern-focused work.

The Her Serenity Method™

A structured, trauma-informed framework for emotional regulation, identity rebuilding and relational trauma recovery.

This method is designed to move you from survival-based emotional patterns into grounded self-leadership through a progressive three-stage process.

Stage 1

Safety (The Body)

Before any deep emotional or relational work can take place, the nervous system must be stabilised.

In this stage, we focus on helping your system move out of chronic activation, hypervigilance and emotional overwhelm.

The goal is simple:
your body begins to experience safety again.

This creates the foundation for clarity, emotional regulation and deeper internal work

 

Stage 2

Story (Understanding Patterns) 

In this stage, we begin to understand the emotional patterns that have been driving your responses.

Using a trauma-informed Parts-based approach (informed by Internal Family Systems principles), we explore the different internal responses that have developed to keep you safe.

This is not about over-identifying with parts of yourself,  it is about understanding the emotional strategies you have used to survive.

As this understanding develops, internal conflict begins to soften and emotional clarity increases.

 

Stage 3

Strength (Self-Leadership)

This is where integration and reclamation begin.

You move from survival-based responses into grounded self-leadership where your choices, boundaries and emotional responses are led from clarity rather than fear or conditioning.

This stage supports you in:

- Reclaiming your voice and emotional truth

- Establishing and holding boundaries without guilt or collapse

- Building emotional stability in relationships and life decisions

- Developing trust in your internal guidance system

You are no longer reacting from old patterns, you are leading from awareness, stability and self-trust

 

A structured trauma-informed approach for women navigating relational trauma, emotional overwhelm, burnout, anxiety and identity loss.

The 6-Week Reset

Safety → Early Story Work

A focused coaching container designed to help you stabilise emotional overwhelm, regulate your nervous system and begin understanding the patterns that have been keeping you stuck.

This is ideal for women who feel emotionally exhausted, highly activated, disconnected from themselves or caught in repetitive relational dynamics and need structured support to regain clarity and stability.

Inside this container:

  • 6 × 90-minute private coaching sessions

  • Trauma-informed emotional support

  • Nervous system regulation and stabilisation work

  • Early emotional pattern and attachment awareness

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) Integration where appropriate

  • Structured guidance and reflection between sessions

  • Worksheets, resources and tools as required

This work focuses on:

  • Reducing emotional overwhelm and reactivity

  • Understanding survival responses and emotional triggers

  • Rebuilding internal stability and self-awareness

  • Creating emotional grounding and clarity

we don’t just talk in coaching, we regulate, we rebuild and we reconnect

The Serenity IMMERSION

Full Method Integration

A deeper trauma-informed coaching container designed for women ready to move beyond survival patterns and begin rebuilding identity, emotional stability and self-trust at a deeper level.

This work moves through emotional pattern recognition, nervous system responses, attachment dynamics and internal restructuring using the Her Serenity Method™.

Inside this container:

  • 1 × 90-minute onboarding and deep-dive session

  • 10 × 60-minute private coaching sessions

  • Structured emotional pattern work

  • Trauma-informed Parts-based exploration using IFS )Internal Family Systems)

  • Ongoing integration and reflection support

  • Trauma Unlocking Workbook (100 + pages) or Narcissistic Trauma Unlocking Healing Workbook

  • Resources and tools as required

  • Emails and Voxer Support in-between sessions (Monday to Friday)

This work focuses on:

  • Understanding and shifting relational patterns

  • Rebuilding identity after chronic stress, trauma or toxic relationships

  • Strengthening boundaries and emotional self-trust

  • Clarity around decisions and direction

  • Reducing trauma-reactive responses

  • Developing grounded self-leadership and internal safety

Regulate emotional overwhelm, Rebuild self-trust and confidence, Strengthen boundaries, Reconnect with your identity

The Serenity reset

VIP Intensive Healing Day

Safety → Story → Strength

A high-touch immersive transformation experience.

A private intensive experience designed for women seeking concentrated support, emotional clarity and accelerated breakthrough work within a deeply supported environment.

This immersive container allows us to work at greater depth across nervous system regulation, emotional patterns, identity reconstruction and self-leadership in a focused and intentional way.

Available online or in person.

Inside this container:

  • 90-minute pre-intensive preparation session

  • 5-hour immersive private intensive (this can be done online as two half days)

  • In-person venue, refreshments and lunch included

  • 90-minute post-intensive integration session

  • 30 days of Voxer/email support for continued integration and guidance (Monday to Friday)

  • Trauma Unlocking Workbook (100 + pages) or Narcissistic Trauma Unlocking Healing Workbook

  • Resources and tools as required

This work focuses on:

  • Deep emotional and relational pattern work

  • Nervous system recalibration and stabilisation

  • Identity rebuilding and emotional reconnection

  • Clarity around boundaries, decisions and direction

  • Accelerated integration and personal transformation

Begin With A Private Coaching Consultation

Every coaching journey begins with a structured 25-minute consultation designed to explore your current experience, identify core emotional patterns and determine the most appropriate level of support through the

Her Serenity Method™

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Freddi
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You were very positive and reassuring. From the beginning, you created a calm and safe environment that allowed me to relax and feel comfortable. Your approach was gentle and well-guided, helping me to feel supported throughout the session. You were highly informative, taking the time to explain the process clearly and answer any questions I had, which helped build my confidence and trust. I also found your advice to be thoughtful and practical, giving me useful tools to reflect on and apply in my daily life. Most importantly, you enabled me to feel completely at ease when sharing my experiences, without any sense of judgment. This made a significant difference in how open and engaged I was during the process, and contributed greatly to the overall effectiveness of the session.

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England
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England
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From the outset Anita created a welcoming and safe environment. All communication prior to the session was professional and reassuring. Anita had a great energy and really helped me gain clarity and perspectives on the issues I brought to the sessions. I would 100% recommend her to anyone looking for support after divorce.

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England
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I have had the privilege of working with Anita for the past six months, and I can honestly say that she has been the angel I didn't know I needed. From the very first session, Anita has been so lovely to work with; so approachable, kind, and deeply human. She has an extraordinary ability to understand my situation in ways no one else ever has, offering not only insight but compassion, empathy and support in a way that feels truly personal. For the first time in 8 years, I feel there is somebody cheering me on from the sidelines, whilst also fully guiding me. Her support honestly feels like a hug. Through her guidance, I have gained the strength to set boundaries that I had known for years were necessary, but I lacked the courage to implement. The results have been life-changing, with a newfound peace and softness now in our home. Anita is incredibly thorough, knowledgeable, and deeply invested in her work. I never imagined that a coach could give herself so fully to my healing journey, but Anita does this every single time. My nervous system, which has been in turmoil after a very traumatic eight years, finally feels safe with her. Through her help, I’m beginning to heal in ways I never thought possible, and which I never realised I needed to. Thank you a hundred times

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Ireland

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